"Met the man of my dreams" from Misty
It all happened by mistake, I got into this site,
found a very interesting man in South Africa. We have fallen in love & he
has asked me to marry him
This is most exciting thing that has ever happened to me. I just wanted to
thank you.
and from the man she met
Hi WebMaster,
From Single Parents I have met a beautiful lady all the way down in Perth
who is now coming to SA
I really would like to give my undying thanks for such a great site...I
actually would like my name on the site left on with the
endorsement..."This guy has been claimed by Val Darville from Perth,
Australia"
Thank you again ...the site DOES work !!!!
Chris
"As life goes by" by Amanda Ludick
I just "stumbled" onto this website today and was so amazed
to read what other single parents have to say (stories so similar to my
own). I was blissfully, happily married for nearly eleven years when
satan heaved havoc through my life, nearly destroying me and my two
girls in the process. But God has a better plan, I've learned, observed
and grown in all spheres of life and today I can truly say, as life goes
by, we certainly have to deal with all kinds of situations but God is
there with us every step of the way and He will in His own time restore
everything taken from us. I have made many friends over the last four
years since my divorce but have not found that "special partner" yet -
as I had to sort out my emotional growth and restoration of my
confidence and faith but my advice to all single parents out there is :
first of all, become sucessfully single!! stand on your own two feet in
all aspects of life before you look for someone to share your life with
- don't look for someone to share your burdens (no matter what they are)
overcome them first and live a happy balanced life, only then will you
be truly ready to commit your life and future to someone else.
God bless!
"Starting Over" from Trish
(Thought this might let everyone know that these sort of things happen in the rest of the worl as well. So here's a great story from Trish. JOHN)
When my "husband" walked out on me and my girls, I really didn't know what I was going to do. He left me with no money, and no income. I was a stay at home mom because it was cheaper for me to stay at home with our twins then pay for daycare. Anyway after he walked out I went to the DHS to see what kind of help I could receive. And belive it or not that was the best thing I ever did. They have this program called Power I where they will send you to school to get a certificate in either office admin. or child care. I am now almost done with the year program, and I am planning to continue on with my schooling. I have changed my major to telecommunications. I never would have been able to do this with out the support of my family, and a very caring case worker. And to them I give my thanks and my love.
"Forgive & Forget" from Kim
After a very Turbulent 12 months that are now
over,eventually! My divorce is finally coming to an end. I have
found God and I have the most precious gift ....... my son! He
has shown me that children are so resiliant and that no matter
what he has been thru he carries on!
A lot of us single adult
folks (Or so we like to see ourselves) can really learn from
our children! Lets just stop worrying about our emotions and
just remember that a divorce for children is even worse for
them. They feel abandoned and unloved. It is our job to LOVE
them as they love us ....Unconditionally! I thank God for the son that he has lent me, and thank my son by loving him and
ensuring that I am always there for him!!!!
Maybe we should
all try to make that our rule to live by! Remember : Forgive &
Forget!!!
I found this when I emptied some old boxes after our last move. Haven't got
the foggiest notion where it came from, or who it's from. I think it's very
apt for all of us struggling along, bringing up our children on our own,
specially those who find themselves suddenly single again.
~Living alone requires a certain amount of self-esteem and the ability to
do things without the company of others. It also needs a great deal of
maturity, for it forces us to draw on our resources and to know ourselves.
Be proud that you are mastering life on your own. You can be yourself
without outside approval.~
Thanks Karin. I'm glad you found this. I know it's been a help to me and I'm sure that others will feel the same way. Thanks again. JOHN
"Self Developement" from Ruwaydah
When my status reverted to single, I started reading a lot of psychology books to try and understand who I was and where I was going and amazingly, today, I am a much stronger, more confident person and have the insight I would never have had, had I remained in a destructive relationship. I can honestly say - I love myself and accept myself!
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